Community 10: for personal reflection
For the personal work:
What are the challenges to our community life?
Often the apostolate becomes a way of escaping from the community life. Relationships outside are easier than those inside. We see it monitoring the desire we have to go out or that to come back; how much do we speak about our community with our outside friends and what do we say about it? Do I like to gossip with my outside friends about the wrongs in my community?
The emptiness and discomfort inside is covered by the busy activity outside. How easily do we accept commitments and activities in moments in which we should instead come back home where the community is having the common prayers, the meals, meetings recreations etc?
How much do we speak to our brothers about our activities, and how much help we ask from them? Are we willing to share our activities with them?
Somebody may be tempted to live in the community in a passive way, without joy or creativity, without any proposal, worried to disturb the others with her own ideas. This is also wrong because the community grows through the contributions of all. Am I one of those? What can I do to help my community to be a better answer to the plan of God?
Do I understand the value of living as a family?
Do I thank the Lord for my community? What do I have to thank for in a special way?
Is there anything that I feel guilty of towards my community? How can I remedy it?
Here are some passages from St. Paul on how to improve our community life:
1 Cor 13, 1-7
Fil 2, 1-5
Col 3, 12-15
Ef 4, 1-13
2 Tim 4,1